Loving yourself is very baffling when, all the people around you are doing is label you. People think that they have some kind of rights over you, which makes them judge every single step you take. They way you dress, the way you talk, the way you walk and what not! But never forget that, people are going to label you, it’s how you overcome those labels that matters.
Believe In Yourself!
You have to be strong for yourself.Believing in yourself is the key to survive in this world where people just keep monitoring your moves. Believing in yourself doesn’t mean that you keep telling yourself that you can do it, that you can overcome your difficulties. You have to actually do it and prove it to the world that you are capable of being the best version of yourself.
Be Sure Of Yourself!
Just because, some people don’t like you,it doesn’t mean that you have to change yourself. No! Never ever do this. If they don’t like you, it’s their loss of not knowing such an incredible person like you. It’s their misunderstanding of what kind of a person you are. From my perspective, the people who don’t like themselves, end up labelling people who are actually great. You don’t have to get negative about them, you just have to give such people their time to actually, get to know themselves and start loving who they really are. Once they are sure about themselves, you will see them bloom in an awe-inspiring personality.
You, my friend, you are special. Never doubt this. You have come in this world for a reason, find that reason. Because, when you do, everything you do will have a meaning to it which will keep you happy.
Do you know what matters? You matter. If you weren’t here in this world, the world population would have come down to 7,331,236, 553 from 7,331,236,554. And as I mentioned above, there is a reason for your presence in this world.
You Are Unique!
Everyone is not the same in this world. If everyone had to be the same, then why would God send 7 billion people who are absolutely the same? You have to understand that you aren’t like everyone else, you may not be good in studies like the smartest student in your class but you maybe totally good at helping people solve their problems. Don’t forget that you are unique and unique is beautiful.
With all that being said, the conclusion that comes from this is, to simply LOVE YOURSELF. No matter what they call you, know that you aren’t that and you are much more better than those labels. Once you start believing in yourself, these labels won’t even affect you 0.1%. Once you love yourself, all your problems would vanish away, this is my promise to you. If you have been affected by the labels, now is the time to be strong and move on because, broken crayons still colour, right? If those labels have affected you then I would say, it’s okay to be a glow stick because sometimes you need to break before you shine.
I really hope if this post helped you in some way and gave you a boost to love yourself. I would love to know if you have ever been labelled and if yes, how did you overcome it or how are you trying to overcome it?